Illinois LGBTQIA+ Resource Hub
Family Protections
and Elder Rights
If you're LGBTQIA+ and living anywhere in Illinois, you have robust legal protections. This page includes information on state laws surrounding marriage, civil unions, custody, adoption, and birth certificates for LGBTQIA+ families.
What to Do if Your Rights Are Violated
If you are facing discrimination, whether it is a hospital refusing to recognize your partner, a refusal to be added to a birth certificate, a school excluding you from decisions about your child, or an Illinois government form that misgenders you, you have options to explore under Illinois law. You can contact our legal hotline for information and resources at 855-805-9200.
LGBTQIA+ Family Protections
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Marriage and civil unions are protected by law for same-sex couples in Illinois. Legalizing your partnership is a personal and intimate decision, and only you know what is best for you. When taking the step to obtain legal recognition of your relationship, it is important to know that marriages and civil unions do not provide the same protections and recognitions.
Same-sex marriage has been legal in Illinois since 2014. When the U.S. Supreme Court decided Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, same-sex marriage was legalized across the country. Illinois laws treat same-sex married couples the same as other married couples — both in marriage and in divorce.
Same-sex couples may also choose to enter into civil unions in Illinois. Civil unions for same-sex couples have been legal in Illinois since 2011, and provide various state protections, including inheritance protections, joint state tax filing, and hospital visitation rights. However, same-sex couples in civil unions do not receive the same federal benefits as married couples, such as immigration, social security, and federal tax benefits. Also, civil unions might not be recognized in other states if you move out of Illinois.
Divorce proceedings for same-sex married couples are no different than other divorces. Despite this, LGBTQIA+ couples may face certain difficulties with the recognition of their family structure. Issues such as custody, child support, and alimony may be more complicated for LGBTQIA+ families. For more information about securing legal parentage and parental rights, see the Fertility, Custody, and Adoption section below.
Marriage And Civil Union Resources:
Illinois Legal Aid Online (ILAO) — Marriage and Civil Union
Circuit Court of Cook County — Getting Married or Entering a Civil Union
Illinois State Bar Association — The Basics of Getting a Divorce in Illinois
Summary of legal information on divorce generally, and when the divorcing couple has minor children:
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Whether you are planning to grow your family or are already raising children, Illinois law supports and protects LGBTQIA+ parents. LGBTQIA+ families and individuals can legally adopt and have custody of children, and discrimination in the adoption and custody processes is illegal. The legal recognition of your parenthood may depend on your relationship to both your partner and the child.
In December 2025, Governor Pritzker signed the Equality for Every Family Act into law. The Equality for Every Family Act took full effect on January 1, 2026, strengthening Illinois' protections for LGBTQIA+ families. The Act expands the voluntary acknowledgement of parentage (VAP) process so more parents can have legal recognition of parentage and can do so without the need for an attorney or judge. The Act also streamlines the confirmatory adoption (second-parent adoption) process for children born through assisted reproduction, where the intended parents are already recognized as the child's legal parents. Confirmatory adoption can make your parental rights extra secure, especially in cases of moving to a new state, divorce or separation, and medical emergencies or travel complications. Finally, the Act revises its provisions on assisted reproduction and surrogacy to ensure protections for LGBTQIA+ families and unmarried couples.
For more information about the Equality for Every Family Act, read GLAD Law's summary.
Fertility, Custody, and Adoption Resources:
Family Equality — Information on the Importance and Mechanisms of Legal Parentage
ILAO — Custody and Adoption
Circuit Court of Cook County — Information on Illinois Adoptions
GLAD Law — Helpful steps to take to protect your family
Summary of legal information on second parent/stepparent adoption for LGBTQIA+ folks:
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Birth certificates are more than a piece of paper; they can influence how schools, doctors, and governments recognize your family. Illinois allows gender-neutral parent designations on their child's birth certificate. You can be named "Parent" rather than "Mother" or "Father." Parents may be added to a birth certificate when meeting one of the custody or adoption situations above. For more information on how to correct birth certificate issues, see the Vital Records / ID Documents page.
Birth Certificate Resources:
ILAO — Birth Certificate Issues
Information For LGBTQIA+ Elders
Our LGBTQIA+ community thrives on mutual support and compassion, and no one knows this better than our LGBTQIA+ elders. From covertly sharing healthcare resources before there were publicly welcoming spaces, to stepping forward as caregivers for our chosen family, our history proves we have been there for one another when it matters most. We rise to face tough challenges and support one another, as the trailblazers we are. Our LGBTQIA+ elders in Illinois have the right to be free from discrimination based on their identity.
Like healthcare, estate planning is an important consideration for LGBTQIA+ elders. Despite protections against discrimination under Illinois law, assumptions of traditional family structures and property ownership remain steeped in the law and may disadvantage or counter the wishes of LGBTQIA+ people. To ensure that your final wishes are honored, having the necessary legal documents in place is key. Taking these steps now can help ensure your wishes and priorities will be respected and followed.
Resources for LGBTQIA+ Elders:
Resources from Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Elders (SAGE)
What is SAGE?
Founded in 1979, SAGE is a non-profit organization dedicated to improving the lives of older LGBTQIA+ through local, state and federal advocacy, and by providing resources focused on LGBTQIA+ aging.
SAGECollab partner — find SAGE national partners who are advancing LGBTQIA+ aging equity and offering programming coast to coast
SAGECare search — find providers who are trained by SAGE in LGBTQIA+ aging cultural competency
SAGE and National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging — A step-by-step guide for the LGBTQIA+ community in preparing for healthcare needs and end-of-life decisions:
ILAO — Estate Planning
Center for Disability and Elder Law
CaringInfo — Information and Template for Advance Directives in Illinois
Need help or have questions?
If you feel your rights have been violated, or if you need guidance on any of the above, contact the Illinois Pride Connect Legal Hotline at 855-805-9200.